"Being happy doesn't mean everything's perfect, it means you've decided to see beyond the imperfections to whats really important" Family!

Friday, September 23, 2011

A birdie told me I've been on your mind.......

So....Here I am. Can I help you??

I'm sure I can...but first...... I need help. Houston is so darn big, I just can't seem to not get lost, even when I'm headed to places I've already been! This week held tons of things for me. One of which involved heading to the Houston's Children's Museum. It was for 75% work and 25% "fun" (did I mention I'm publisher mom now too? .....details to come). I was supposed to be there at 9:30 am but due to the winding roads and oddly placed exit signs, I ended up driving around for at least and additional 45 minuets. Uggh!  Once I parked and hurried Hana inside with me things began to go smoother. I met with the Museum's PR Associates, headed over to my table and the fun began.(can you say net working!).

FFWRD------- After work was all done, I was invited to stay at the museum and let my little Hana bear play. I do have to say.....my little sunflower was a GOOD girl. She sat right at my booth and just waited for the event to end. She didn't cry or try to run off after the other kids. She just ate the snacks and chatted. Anyway....back to the play time. Once she let loose she had an awesome time. She rode the tricycles, went shopping in the play city supermarket, ....Oh man...she really had a ball! One thing I learned.....my baby has an affinity for strawberries! When she pretend shopped, she checked out lots of plastic food, but STOCKED UP on the berries! She took them all. Needless to say that getting her out of there was no fun at all. Here are some shots from the day!

Oh! and no.....she never asked to nurse once, while we were out. ^_^









Tuesday, September 20, 2011

Wow...It's been 6 months!!

Since my last post! I cant believe it!  But  business and work has kept me SUPER SUPER BUSY!!  That's a good thing, however I still think I need to get back to my blog ^_^ ...... after all......I'm still a nursing mama.....extended that is ^_^.

I don't really have the time to make this a catch-up post because of the ton of things that have happened, but I'll try to squeeze it in little by little. I guess I'll start with what I really want to share.....

My NYC visit!!
I went to see my big sis graduate in the summer and man...it was really nice. aside from the ceremony it sure was nice to see my family again, and my old city! I never thought I'd miss the good ole Bronx but I do. I miss all the things I grew up with, the food, the places, my friends,,,,,*sigh...Maybe going back will be in my future..but for now I'm living life as a Texas girl and I have to say....it's not a bad life at all (my eldest son can walk to high school and there are no people standing on the corner, and in a year he can drive himself to school!

anyway...back to my NYC visit!  Here are some of my favorite pictures......I'll keep putting more up as the day goes on.











Wednesday, May 4, 2011

Wordlessly Wednesday: Easter Afternoon

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Wednesday, March 30, 2011

Sunday, March 20, 2011

19 months...1st fever


Hana Bear has her first high fever......this is a big deal as this little powerhouse of health is NEVER sick.  As things happen.... this fever just came out of nowhere. It's about. 3 am....an hour or do ago i noticed an overly fussy, sleepy, and oddly enough...talkative little girl. when she rolled over to me she was quite warm and i knew she was sick.

I took her temp and gave her a dose of infant tylenol and motrin......both at the same time.....its a little trick i learned with my first and second sons ( especially my second son Ryan...he was always sick it seemed...poor baby..) Thats what they do at the ER to bring the fever down quickly.



Right now its looking like the medicine worked, because she feels cool to the touch. much better than 30mins ago. She's even fallen back to sleep. She is so brave...even being sick, she has not cried like some little ones do. Such a strong little girl....totally reminds me of my mother!



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Sunday, March 13, 2011

sunday buffett

A lazy Sunday and a really good buffet makes for good times. too bad no one wanted to pose for pictures...I think the food was more of interest to them ^_^


Saturday, February 5, 2011

Saturday Blues...

I feel the winter blues......even though it's about 55 degrees outside today. I also feel the persistent urge for a vacation. Maybe because I'm working so hard, or maybe it is the weather,....but i really feel the need for a Caribbean vacation! I'd love to take the kids this time, so im going to research some kid friendly cruises! On top of that I'm feeling home sick......I MISS NYC!!!! Really ....I'm going to be there in march, hopefully. First stop....all my favorite food spots! Of course the little nurser will be with me, so no night life for me ^_^

Wednesday, February 2, 2011

Sunday, January 16, 2011

Firsts vs Lasts

My little girl has become more independent lately. Just last month my daughter had this thing she would do when she woke up in the morning. Actually she has been doing this one action since i brought her home from the hospital. Every morning, even after her naps, If she was asleep in another room and woke up, she would sit up in the bed and cry (just fake tears) until someone came to get (rescue) her. This week things are different. While sitting down stairs in the living room I heard Hana do her morning whimper....but this time it was very short. Just a few sounds, and then the pitter patter of her little foot steps! She got out of the bed on her own, came down the stairs in her butt sliding fashion, and tada! there she was. Myself and her Father could not believe our eyes.....our little baby is getting big. The very next day she did it again, and now gone are the days of going to get my little princess from the bed.

That's what got me to thinking about all her other "lasts". No one ever really bothers to document  the last time their kids do the little things that mark their journey into new stages, but I think I will start. Another recent last for my little girl is her cute way she goes down the stairs in our house. She scoots down on her butt, but just the other day she grabbed the banister and WALKED down just like everyone else! Now that's how she goes up AND down the stairs. I guess that marks her growing into a different phase of full toddler-hood, but I sure do miss seeing her do that little scoot of hers....oh well....another "last" for the record book.

another thought.....I wonder when was the last time my boys reached up to me and I carried them???.....you know....the last time before they asked to be carried again, and I told them the were too heavy for mommy to pick up......Hana is getting so big....I'm sure that time is coming for her sooner than I'd like, but for now I know there are many more carries left before I'm writing about the "last" one.
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Wednesday, January 12, 2011

Wordless Wednesday 2011

A night out in Oct 2010!
My little Hana bear taking a break from riding her Christmas ATV!

Friday, December 31, 2010

Last post of 2010

You may not know..but my blog has taken a back seat to 2 businesses and 3 kids. It's a pretty busy schedule, hectic even. But I have to say I love every moment of my new life!. I had some major changes take place in my universe over the course of this year.......

I started 2 business.....One in which I sell my handmade childrens clothes, and occasion wear. Things like tutu's, hair accessories, and actual apparel. This has really taken off for me. Most days I spend sewing, sketching, putting together hair clips, and working on my website.....not to mention maintaining a very active Facebook page and advertising! It has become more work thank one woman can handle so I'm considering getting an employee or two......maybe even an Intern to help with the administrative portions. My second business is HR consulting, things have slowed down with this, partially due to the explosion on the first business. I think this year I will put this business on hold to focus on my boutique, and taking things to the next level with it. Wish me luck....I have some good things in the works, but I don't want to let the cat out of the proverbial "bag" until the "bird"is in hand and things are set.


Next upon the list of changes.....I am now the proud owner of a TODDLER!! unlike this time last year, my little sunflower is really getting into everything. She keeps me super busy! Did I mention she is still nursing!! We've almost made it to the 18 month mark, and I am really tired. But the good thing is that toddler nursing is not like infant nursing. She is now a professional at it, and during the day her nursings are quick and to the point. We are still doing the "on demand" thing, and it still is working for us. I am still thanking god that things happened the way they did, so I can still work at home and be with my children. I can't believe I am entering the extended nursing club. I promised that as long as I was at home that I'd nurse my baby until SHE was ready to wean....I'm holding up my end of the promise.....and god has blessed my boobs with the ability.

Here's a pumping update.....my enduring bessie (Medela Pump In Style).....is in retirement. I have not used her in MONTHS! I do keep her dust free and displayed proudly in my closet though. Since Hana is eating and drinking regular food, there is no reason for me to pump. Even if she stays with daddy, while im out shopping. I am also happy to say, she does NOT drink cows milk in any form......ok maybe a little with cereal...but it's not often that she has cereal anyway...and she always spills the beast milk out of the bowl. I have no plans on getting rid of my pumps. I'd like to hold onto them .....for what I don't know...but I don't feel comfortable with getting rid of them all together........I don't know...they are like a part of me & represent part of my life.

Yes..I am a sentimental fool.


Next Update.......

I MOVED!!! YAY!! I think I posted about the big move before....but yeah.....I'm not in NYC anymore. It was a huge change for our family, but sometimes you have to stop dreaming about doing better things, and just get things done. I was thinking of getting a new place not far from where I used to live in Riverdale...but me and the Mr got our heads together to make the best of our home funds and came up with this big exit strategy. We checked out our new state before we moved, decided it was right for our family and took the leap. We still have some "leaping" to do...but I think things are moving in the right direction. I miss NYC like crazy....but I would not go back if I could help it. The US is a big place...and I'm glad I get the pleasure of finding out there is more to life than just one city. My kids actually get to go outside and ride their bikes, and I don't have to fight for a parking space! The parks here are not just concrete jungle gyms, and the schools are wayyy better than NYC ones...and their free!   My family is still in NYC.....but I'm working on that ^_^


ohh...btw...to my F&F still there.....enjoy the deep freeze! It's balmy and awesome here! :p

So yup....lot's of changes......now the big one.....A NEW YEAR!!  see you there ^_^

Wednesday, October 20, 2010

Wordless Wednesday: Dapper Dad & Daughter


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Wednesday, September 29, 2010

Wordless wednesday: a glimps of our new life.

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Sunday, September 26, 2010

14 Months & Counting.......

That's what today makes........

14 Months of nursing my little angel. It really feels like forever, and since I never thought I'd make it this long, I'm both proud and tired. First I'll go through all the reasons that I'm tired...

One word...teeth! The natural born enemy of lactating moms everywhere! I remember when she grew the first of the now notorious 5.  Ah... I was so proud, I think I posted it everywhere I could on the internet, called friends and family, even told the occasional stranger that would stop and chat with me about the baby. I mean, I was elated...cloud 9. Now the 5 flash their white hot furry at me from within the smile of my adorable little toddler as she proudly shows them off. She sure does love to smile, and while I know with full certainty that he smile is her outwardly expression of her inner joy, I can't help but to think that sometimes.....just sometimes...she flashes those pearly whites, knowing just what she intends to do with them at our next nursing session......can babies smell fear???  I know it may sound silly to some, but if you have ever experienced the great "joy" of  having your "girls" trapped in the tiny sharp teeth of a toddler, all the while they laughed and smiled as you beg for mercy, then surly you know what I'm talking about!.My Husband thinks this is all funny, and jokes the one day she is going to bite me straight through........ can you hear the crickets?......

Another reason why I am tired....I think with the strains of my work, I have let my diet suffer, and that is draining me. The first rule of nursing....."Eat healthy meals". I'm not talking lettuce and bird food here.....I mean foods rich in vitamins and calcium. Any boob-wise mama can tell you that no matter what you eat, your body will make your milk nutritionally "complete" with a few exceptions.....and eating well is more for you than anything else.  Well ladies and gents.....I've bombed that one with flying colors. I can tell I am in dire need of calcium, and I quit taking my pregnancy vitamins early this year. I've always received complements on having a very bright and nice smile....but I think one of the chomppers is a lost cause.  Bye-bye little tooth...rest in piece. I will be in GNC tomorrow to buy more prenatal vites! Live and lean...then forget..and learn again I guess....

On demand nursing.....I'll tell you....That's been both a blessing and a curse. It blesses me with gallons and gallons of milk during these 14 months. It's blessed me to within 8lbs of my pre-baby weight. It's comforted my little baby by pulling double duty as a pacifier. It's blessed my relationship with my daughter in that both she and I know that milk will be there whenever she is hungry, not just whenever the clock tells her she should eat. (personal opinion alert!!!!)....I feel people should not treat their babies like trained puppies. They are allowed to be hungry at whatever time their tiny little bellies growl. I would never deny my baby a drink of milk just because it's not "time" to nurse.....to me thats crazy, and if you disagree....then I'd like you to tell that to your belly. I don't know any grown adult that eats at a designated time on the dot, everyday..... Now I digress...above are all the things that NOD has done for me. Now the stinker........ My sweet, sweet baby girl, fights me for the "girls" in public......  :-(  We all know that I have gotten over the whole "Nursing in public" thing ages ago, but it's quite another animal when you're in line at a fabric store and your daughter goes into your shirt with her tiny little hand to retrieve her milk herself! Of course being the lucky lady that I am, I just so happen to be wearing a halter top....enough said... I can never go back to that store again.....

So as I write this, I'm thinking to myself ....geezz....with all that..what exactly am I proud of?? Well for starters...I still can't believe that I made it past a year with no formula needed. I had two back up cans of milk that Similac sent to me as a sample, I ended up giving that away. I can proudly say for sure that my baby is and was all breastfed! This breastfeeding thing has went so much better than the two time I journeyed before. The money I saved has been phenomenal, and to kick it up a notch...My little girl is the picture of health. No midnight runs to the doctor here. (Thank you lord for blessing her so much.). I am hoping to keep on nursing right up until her 2nd birthday now, but if I can make it to 18 months..I'll call it a victory. ^_^

Wednesday, August 11, 2010

Wordless Wednesday: Fly boys & girls



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Saturday, August 7, 2010

Getting up to Speed......

My oh my.....where do I start.....

It's been a really long time since I had a chance to just sit down and blog. So many positive things have happened over the last few months, I have to say that I am truly blessed and even more thankful. I don't know how much I can cover in this one post, but Let's give it a go!.

My Laptop is still busted, but I'm working with it. That's just the way it has to be for now. I'm hoping to get a brand spanking new one before the year is out. We'll see.

All of Hana's birthday parties have come and gone, and I must say it was great. The first one we had early because we wanted all friends and family to attend. We did a flower theme BBQ birthday party complete with a boutique cupcake tower! The story of the cupcakes is a bit wild, but the end result was well worth driving round and round, and avoiding midtown tow trucks.

These cupcakes were awesome. The cake inside was the best around and The icing was the best creamy dream you can find! I really hate those over sweetened sugar cubes some bakeries try to pass off as cakes. You know the kind with super unreal decorations that look cute but taste like shizzle! This place had Icing that was made of real cream & butter cream icing,.(expensive but worth it)...a pain in the ass to keep from melting in the summer heat, but nothing some dry ice and will power wont cure. I also bought some stuffed cupcakes from this super place in NJ for us grown ups......yum is all that can be said! Moving on....it was the first time this summer that I was not the grill master. I had provided the cooked food so Daddy stepped up and showed off his manly grill skills.....the food was delish...thanks babe! The birthday girl was very fussy and tired through most of the party. I wish she was into it more, but hey...she's 1.

The second birthday celebration we had on her real birthday. We had the same cupcake tower but with different cupcakes. The crowd consisted of the immediate family only this time, but we still had a good time. We had the party on the Patio where the mess could be sprayed away with a hose, and unlike last time we let her dive head first into a whole cupcake. She made the biggest mess I've ever seen! But I think she loved it! We cleaned up and went out to dinner to continue the celebration. at this all you can eat steak place. I think we all ate like piggy's. The food at this place was amazing. I've never seen a place with good all you can eat steak, plus the had a buffet of Spanish food, soul food, and american food! we didn't walk out.....we rolled!

Nursing.....It's still going..no issues to speak of....IF you don't count biting and scratching! OUCH! I'm trying to deal with it, but it sucks. Hopefully teaching her not to bite helps......someday before she's 8..lol! Advise please!!  Hana is not showing any signs of weaning herself. She can eat a full meal and still put in a full nursing session! At this rate she is going to out her big brother and I'll be in the poor house ^_^.

Oh I forgot to mention...My baby WALKED!!! 2 days before her birthday!! We were out at a photo shoot for my accessories when it happened, but she did it....Daddy, her brothers, our host and I were in amazement! She was playing with one of those walk push toys when she pushed it aside and walked clear across the living room right into my arms! I almost cried...had to fight back the tears! Now almost 2 weeks later my little girl is starting to run! She tries to avoid crawling now. If she can't walk past something she gets very fussy.

Water baby.....My flower is learning to swim! We've been swimming a lot lately. Daddy bought his little angel the cutest swimsuit & matching flip flops and a pink float-wet-suit! She loves the water and I think she will know how to swim by the time she turns 2! She already knows how to mover her hands around in the water and kick her legs!

So many new and exciting things going on, I'll have to post again very soon....but for now check out the pictures! I promise to get backup to speed soon!








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